Dr. Jay Forrest

Evolution is important in understanding ourselves. In our inner evolution, we developed a frontal cortex and gained a higher capacity for reasoning. At this point, the moral law began to emerge. And as this moral law developed, we began to develop conscience.

Since humans sprang from animals, our animal nature is still with us. This animal nature is the part that predisposes us to self-preservation and self-concern. It is the enemy of benevolence—not in every case, but in some, especially when the good of others is equal to our own.

This is why reason is so important in the development of morality. When reason reaches the point where it can discern right and wrong in a wider context, we become moral agents. We know that we should treat others as we want to be treated. We know that others are equal to ourselves, and that we should treat one another fairly.

We have an ongoing struggle with this animal nature, which in some traditions is called the lower nature or the carnal nature. We must put this to death, shut it off, and shut it out. We must use our reason to override our animal nature.

Nirvana literally means “to blow out.” In the Buddhist tradition, it refers to the extinguishing of the “three fires” of craving, aversion, and delusion. It signifies that the chains that bound you to conditioned existence have been broken; when you pass from this life, you enter into the deathless.

Henosis is the classical Greek word used in Neoplatonism for mystical “oneness,” “union,” or “unity” with the Ultimate Reality, called the One. It is an experience that can occur in this life, but is only fully realized when you pass from this life and return to the One.

What few realize is that Gotama and Plotinus are describing the same experience—the same realization of liberation from the conditioned realm. Both articulate two realities: the conditioned realm of becoming and the unconditioned reality of Being. The point is to cross from this shore to the far shore.

The reason this is not that clear is that they are approaching reality from different perspectives. Their civilization and cultural backgrounds are different; they are looking at the same ultimate reality from different angles.

We all screw up. We all make mistakes. We all fail. The difference lies in how quickly we return to ourselves—how quickly we get back on the horse, how quickly we regain our composure and mindfulness.

The first step in recovery is realizing that everyone makes mistakes. If you sit there self-flagellating—beating yourself up, browbeating yourself, downgrading and criticizing yourself—you will get stuck in a negative mindset and never move forward.

When you fail, say to yourself: “Not surprising. I’m only human.” Then get up, brush yourself off, and return to the path. Do not linger. Do not stew. Return to the path.

Persistence is what matters. Do not give up. Do not give in. Keep returning. If you fall seven times, rise an eighth. Eventually, persistence wins. Persistence overcomes failure.

It is very easy in life to lose perspective. The non-essentials easily overpower the essentials. The things that truly matter are pushed to the back burner, and we get caught up in what does not matter.

Nothing puts things into perspective more quickly than remembering that we will die. It helps us set priorities. It reminds us what is important in life. It is not things, it is not money—it is the people who benefit from our lives.

When you realize that tomorrow may be your last day, you live today more fully. You treat others as you wish to be treated. You become more kind, more compassionate, and more willing to connect with those around you.

Life is short, and we are not going to get more time. Today, you are one day closer to your death. Realizing this helps you keep perspective. You need to stay focused on the goal: to become more like Ultimate Reality—more loving, more kind, and more mindful.

When we begin to talk about spiritual things, we can use Day language or Night language. By Day language, I mean literal truth. Literal language says what is actually the case in plain English. Night language uses metaphors and myths to convey something of the nuance, something beyond the literal truth.

Night language can be very useful. It can point to something that we really have problems putting into words. Metaphors can catch nuances but literal language cannot. Myths can help us feel the depth of a story that cannot be conveyed by literal words.

But the danger becomes when we use Night language and we interpret it as Day language. In other words, when we take a myth or a metaphor and take it literally. Many people do this with the Bible, and end up with all kinds of crazy ideas. That’s the danger with holy books: we elevate human words to Divine level, and create nothing but division and confusion.

Socrates once said that the unexamined life is not worth living. This is not usually explained, but I think what he meant is that a life that is not purposely lived is not worth living. It is just existing.

When you realize how many people go through life on autopilot, you begin to see that mindfulness is actually a superpower. It allows you to return to your life. It allows you to be right here, right now.

I don’t know if you’ve heard of NPCs—non‑player characters in video games. They go through the motions of being alive, but they are actually just programs. There is no consciousness behind them. Many people are like that.

This is why it’s so important to bring mindfulness into your life: to be aware of what you’re doing while you’re doing it. When you do the dishes, you are present while doing the dishes. When you chop wood, you just chop wood. To be fully present in the very moment you breathe. After all, you are not going to get more days in your life, but you can get more life in your days.